Step 1) Find Monster Factory
Step 2) Find a McElroy Podcast (usually MBMBAB or TAZ)
Step 3) Furiously consume all McElroy content
Step 4) Enlightened, strive to become a legitimately good person.
Or, as most I know have found it:
Step 1) Find Sawbones
Step 2) Find another McElroy Podcast
Step 3) Try other McElroy content
Step 4) Kiiiiiiinda wonder how Sydnee puts up with all the craziness