A personal note…

happyhealthycats:

About declawing.

When a cat has a specific behavior issue, it’s important to get to the cause of that problem and deal with it. Either you remove the source of the stimulus that is causing the issue, or you help the cat grow accustomed to the stimulus.

There’s a lot of areas where the “remove or get them used to it” plan of attack can get kinda muddy, but if you really boil down most cat issues that’s what it falls to, and there are different ways to deal with both.

Except declawing.

You know, it’s true. Not all cats who are declawed develop “behavior issues”, but when they do, it’s severe. And when they do, you don’t get a say in how you want to handle it. You don’t get the decision. Telling me you don’t want your cat to go on the counters is easy. I can train them not to. Heck, YOU can train them not to. It takes work but it’s doable. But if you tell me you want your cat to be able to walk on the linoleum floor instead of the carpet after you took off the tips of its toes, you don’t have that right. If you want a cat to go somewhere you’re going to have to put down a carpet for it to walk on.

And this has nothing to do about blame. Public information has changed about declawing. A lot of vets refused to do it now. It’s illegal in some countries. I know plenty of amazing cat owners who have declawed cats in the past, who have learned the reality of the procedure, and have vowed to never declaw another cat.

But once a cat is declawed, there is no amount of training that can help them. It’s all about doing what they want. Because they’re in pain. Because they’re scared. Because they have absolutely no defense.

People declaw cats because they don’t want the cat to scratch them. Cats are more likely to use their only line of defense when provoked – biting, which tends to be WAY more severe. Cats who scratch don’t get put down. Cats that bite do. The lack of protection effects every single thing about their lives. How they interact with people. How they interact with other animals.

A declawed cat will still try to scratch at scratching posts.

That fact haunts me. The fact that scratching is so ingrained into a cat’s behavior that they will still try to scratch something even when they no longer have the ability to. Because not only does it feel good and help sharpen their (long gone) claws, but it’s also an incredibly important form of social interaction and scent mingling. Try talking to someone without your tongue and tell me how that goes.

People declaw cats because they don’t want the cat to ruin their furniture. Declawed cats also tend to stop using their litter box because the litter feels like sandpaper against their painful toes. So when you have to throw away your fifth urine-drenched couch, be happy that at least the legs weren’t scratched up.

People declaw cats for lots of reasons. But if that cat develops a problem (or two, or ten), you have to do everything you can make it better. No amount of encouraging them to use the litter box will work if using the litter box is physical torture. Or if they’re too scared to leave from under the bed because they have absolutely no way to defend themselves. You can’t give that back to them.

I am powerless to help. I can give you suggestions that will make the cat’s life the best they can possibly have. But at the end of the day, it’s possible that your cat can’t use a litter box at all because they’re in too much pain. It’s possible that they’re going to keep spraying or marking not because they want to mark their territory but because they LITERALLY can’t do the thing that allows them to safely mark (scratching at a scratching post). I can’t really help you because I’m a Cat Behaviorist, and you’ve essentially made sure that you no longer have a cat.

But y’know. At least they didn’t claw up your chair.

I know people who have been coerced into declawing their animals. Whether for living spaces that would force them to abandon the animal or go without housing for both animal and human involved, or an imbalance in power within a social dynamic; whether roommates or parental/familial situations. It’s not pretty. It’s not EASY. And I don’t blame them for making the choice they felt they had to. I never will. 

I’ve owned declawed cats that were abandoned with us…. they did not integrate into the group, and for good reasons. They were traumatized and unable to defend themselves as completely as the others. (A front-declawed neutered male with intact toms…? Doesn’t work out so great.) Rocky got VICIOUS. He loved people, but the second it was too much you got BIT, or he’d tear scratches down your arms with his hindlegs. And that fucker was a BIG cat. 

One of my aunts had a declawed siamese. I’ve never HEARD a noisier animal. Not only the vocalization associated with the breed, but ALSO pain because her bowl was in the kitchen… on a tile floor. YIKES.

But then there’s the animals who just sort of accept it and move on with their lives… mostly. The ones where it’s kinda obvious they hurt, but they “don’t let it show.” The ones who still use the box, and snuggle, and don’t try to bite or do anything aggressive… but they don’t really play often either, they don’t scratch, they just sort of… drift

I’ve never seen a declawed cat with the zoomies. Never seen a declawed cat STREAK up a cat tree to receive love and pets. Either they’re loud and aggressive because they’re frightened and hurting, or they’re passive and drifty. They can be HELPED yes; given things and ways of feeling safer and more comfortable; but…..damn. It hurts my heart to see it. 

lenyberry:

jumpingjacktrash:

smut-smut-in-the-butt:

unityinblack:

Man, cats just want to be close to us. They just want to chill in our proximity. They love us so much and they’re just so happy and content to have us close by while we do our people things and they do their cat things. If I’m in another part of the house and my cat hears me, he’ll stop what he’s doing and come over to where he can see me and then continue doing his thing there. I’m crying. 

Mine wants to step/biscuit on my pressure points and bite my feet. 

mine wants to do a library lion pose on my chair arm and make my left elbow warm while i type. he also needs to lick the condensation off my soda can, this is Important. is it different or better from the water in his water dish? yes because it is a Gift!

mine wants to Yell All Night while Human Try To Sleep

Mephistopheles just wants a warm box to sleep in and tasty food and maybe snuggles when he wants them. Also to scream in the night when he wakes up and cannot find you because you have gone to bed and “abandoned him.” He must complain about the abandonment, before he will snuggle for a brief moment, before wandering away to do Cat Things in the night.

Lilith would very much like to Not Be Touched except on HER terms, and to be very loudly appreciated when she jumps on the desk and hides the screen. If you are very lucky and Do Not Touch, perchance she will snuggle. Silently. In the middle of the night, while you are unawares. (Often she forges to leave in the morning, and I find her on His pillow. It’s precious and melts my heart.)

dee-wood:

jinxtimesinfinity:

askragtatter:

anonymous-bosch:

the-sky-traveler:

my brother is teaching his cat how to high five by giving her a treat every time she successfully taps her hand to his hand, which is all well and good, but now she thinks that she is entitled to food every time she high fives someone.  i can’t eat in the same room as her anymore because she’ll just bap my hand rapid fire and then go nyoom straight in for my pizza like no Kelly that’s illegal go finish ur own dinner

“No Kelly, that’s illegal.”

So, a while back, I was using clicker-training to teach my cat Taz tricks. She learned very quickly and it was a good experience all around, but we had to hide the clicker.

Taz had learned that the clicker meant she got treats. So she would find it, carry it up to people, step on it to make it click, and then SCREAM AT THEM to give her the treats she was clearly owed because the clicker had made a sound.

Cats

Pavlov is rolling over laughing in his grave.

I love cats so fucking much oh my GOD