woke: insisting that a female character who has an obvious canon male love interest is canonically a lesbian and then getting pissed at the writers when they have your precious canon lesbian fall in love with a filthy male
woke brain 2: insisting a female character is a lesbian despite having a obvious canon male love interest so she won’t get in the way of your precious soft mlm ship and then getting pissed your sj disguised ship war doesn’t go the way you want it to
woke brain 3: Insisting that a female character with a canonical male interest is lesbian then get mad and call artists “filthy heteros” for drawing fanart of the canon couple and demanding that they stop “erasing her sexuality” or giving them a cookie with fucking needles in it.
Woke brain 4: Insisting that a female character that is canonical married and happy with male interest is a lesbian. And ignored/shaming others that say, said female character can be bisexual. Followed by yelling at anyone that doesn’t see female character ONLY as a lesbian
it’s amazing how people on this hellsite would rather see someone in a relationship with someone that they’re not attracted to rather than even considering that they might be bisexual
Woke brain 5: this character who is bi or even straight in canon is “the butch character of the day 💖🏳️🌈💖,” but if real bi women call themselves butch, they’re stealing from lesbians. Only nonexistent bi women get to be butch.
an observation
Within a generation of genuinely good reform that makes things better for particular groups, there will be a backlash from people who weren’t yet alive way back when and don’t remember what it was like in the bad old days, but are sure something about the reform is a scam.
This is true for major things, like vaccines, or women being able to have their own bank accounts, paying jobs, maternity leave, and the vote. And it’s just as true for smaller things like a fan-run Archive of Our Own (so named, after Virginia Wolfe’s famous feminist essay, for a reason)
that makes fanfiction available for free with a mandate to legally protect it as long as it conforms to the Terms of Service.The current backlash against the OTW I’m seeing all over my dash is completely unsurprising, because we’re at that point in the organisation’s life. There are now fans who weren’t in fandom yet when we made the OTW and AO3, and who have no idea what fandom used to be like.
The fact the backlash is riddled with right wing vocab and lack-of-fact-checking laziness is just as predictable. I doubt most of it is even said with genuine worry – it’s just concern trolling. It’s another face of the usual efforts by the right to suppress the work of women, queers, and other minorities. And yes, I’m being serious. Both right wing trolls and Russian trolls infiltrated fandom conversations, where they overlapped with social justice movements, during the USA’s 2016 election, and they haven’t gone anywhere. Fandom is a nice juicy target for that kind of propaganda effort, because we tend to skew left and be full of minority-identifying people.
This anti-AO3 push is not just wank. It’s propaganda, and it’s attempting to sow discord, distract from important issues, and do harm.
Thanks to those of you who have taken the time to point out those posts are rubbish.
Note: The OTW is a charity, run by fans for fans. I was one of the original Board members, but I’m not currently doing any work with them.
You can read more about the OTW and the AO3 for yourself here: http://www.transformativeworks.org/.

[Image: A Reddit comment by corathus59.
This is almost fifty years ago: I added psych as a major so I could access the books on homosexuality in our university library. They were locked in the back and you had to go through the librarian to get them. If you were not a psych major the Dean of Students would interrogate you as to why you wanted to read such deleterious material.
Seeing the newspaper that one of my professors and his friends had been arrested at his own house, having a barbecue in the backyard, for “associating with a known homosexual”. Believe me, these things twist you, and make you think twice when invited to a party at someone’s house.
Having a handsome young stranger make eyes at you at the all night diner as you study for finals, and wondering if he is one of the detectives assigned to entrapping gays. Going through the teeter totter emotions of wondering if he might be the love you are looking for, or is he the trap that will flush your whole life down the toilet.
Coming to barracks at the end of the day in the Air Force, and watching the swarm of OSI and Security Police escorting a friend out under arrest for having gone to a gay bar. Wondering if he would name you, because that was the only way you could stay out of jail – by naming at least five other gays.
All of the above were common experiences for many gays in America, not that long ago. Those of us who went through this are still among you. Don’t take for granted the new freedoms you have. Get out and vote this election no matter what. The Republicans mean to send us back to all this.]

conditions of love: the philosophy of intimacy
The point is that even within a good relationship there are continual sources of hurt and disappointment which have to be overcome if love is to survive; their overcoming is actually the growth and development of love. It is, therefore, extremely important that we work with a vision of love which sees problems not as the end of love, not as a sign that love is over, but as the ground upon which love operates.
John Armstrong, 2003
Apparently I have a real short fuse right now….
so i’mma go watch some soothing art shit on YouTube and continue grindin for candy on that dumb adoptable site.

Still hungry?
Absolutely!
The average active adult needs 2,000 calories per day in order to function in a safe and healthy manner. If I’m active to the point where I consistently run 1+ hour every day, then it is far more likely that my caloric needs are around 2,400-2,500.
Considering that, a meal of 1,200 calories would perfectly suit my needs. It would supply roughly half of my calorie requirements, which is a God-send since a fast food meal is relatively cheap. It’s a great value, especially if I don’t have much time to cook or have the resources to prepare my own meals!
The average burger is going to supply me with significant protein and carbs. That’s exactly what I’d need in order to build more muscle and have enough energy to make it through a workout. Even the sugar within the meal can be beneficial in supplying me with a boost of energy and can stop me from feeling hungry for a prolonged period of time. Not half bad.
Is this the most healthy meal known to man? Of course not. But it’s still a very reasonable deal and the calorie count is well within the average adult’s daily needs.
Don’t let calories scare you! You need them. If you were capable of burning off an entire meal within the hour, you’d probably be dead by now.
1200 empty calories in a meal
next to no nutrition. all the calories are sugar and fat. that’s it. you’ll have no energy and have glucose spikes in your blood because the lack of fiber because of the lack of complex carbs. this is diabetes in a meal.
so no, you should not be hungry for diabetes
Nutritionally, this BK meal contains roughly 28g of protein and 3g of dietary fiber. It potentially also includes 35% of our Vitamin C daily requirements, 2% Vitamin A, 12% calcium, and 27% iron. Of the 1,010 calories (that I could verify directly from the company’s nutritional information guide), only 410 are from fat. That isn’t a terribly significant amount of fat, in the long run, nor are the nutrients small enough to be viewed as negligible.
Eating this will not cause you to get diabetes. Eating this meal is perfectly fine if you do have diabetes, as long as you are able to adjust your insulin intake accordingly. So don’t use an illness as your debate point – Diabetic people are not a prop.
“So don’t use an illness as your debate point – Diabetic people are not a prop.” I want that and variations of that on t shirts.
damn, man. Someone just got completely schooled by a nutritionist.
THIS A GOOD POST
If you’re on a treadmill and weigh around 150lbs, you’ll burn 300cal/hr at 3.5mph; while someone who weighs 180lbs will burn around 350cal/hr.
Also an hour on the elliptical only burns 300cal on like, the first or second level. If you’re running at a level six or above; which I do thanks; you’re burning closer to 560+ cal/hr. And I can usually hit over 200cal in about 2.5mi on level six; which is… ehhhh twenty minutes, according to my notes.
And if you’re a cyclist; hi hello this is also me~; two hours on pavement with variant inclines will burn around~ 400-550 for a 130lb person, while a 180lb person will burn closer to 650-825 as it takes more calories to move a larger individual. (that’s at about 10mph or less btw, which is a VERY leisurely pace on a bike lemme tell you.)
At the end of any of those things, I personally need a heck of a lot of protein AND iron which, incidentally, I can only get from red meat. (Iron processing disorders are a bitch and a half lemme tell ya~) The easiest and quickest way for me to get protein + iron in a cheap on-the-go package while on the bike or coming home from the gym? One of the four fast food places on my way home.
Yanno what’s NOT super easy and difficult to do when you’re falling over exhausted in the Texas heat and in desperate need of nutritional help…? Trying to cook a steak or brown hamburger for a meal. Yanno what doesn’t help all that much because of how much sugar and other crap is in them…? Protein Bars. (ESPECIALLY if you’ve got issues with dairy or have issues processing some of the extra ingredients~ OR are allergic to some of the binders hi egg allergy how the heck are ya?~)
TL;DR: you don’t know everyone’s dietary requirements, nor are you privy to how often someone is working out or what their personal health is like. Some overweight have thyroid conditions or chronic health issues that make cooking impossible. Some athletes and gym-rat-adjacents need quick fuel, not moralizing.
Instead of trying to give someone a food complex or an eating disorder, how about you applaud the fact that THEY ARE FEEDING THEMSELVES and perhaps request some healthy alternatives. (Especially since some of their salads contain more calories than their burgers!)
For anyone who’s ever wondered who they’d be in a 19th century novel, the wait is over: I put together a 19th Century Character Trope Generator!
If you’d like to reblog, put your character in the tags because I’m curious.
Mysterious Suitor with Homosexual Tendencies
yeah thats accurate
introducing yourself on webforums fifteen years ago like:
You: uhhhhh hi I’m new i guess, just wanna chat about my favorite show too or whatever
iNvAd3rJ1M posted: *pounces* HELLOoOOOO NEW PERSON!!! *throws confetti*
911_NVR-FRGT posted: Hi there! You’ll find a Relaxed Atmosphere Here in Our Community! *points* Beer is In The Fridge, Curfew Is At 9! Haha I’m old
SSJgoku1994 posted: I am a pineapple! Monkeys!!!!!
Drag0n~Swords posted: Forsooth, a stranger doth enter the realm!
dumbledoreftw posted: Welcome! Hope you stick around! We don’t bite….. much!!
Greg posted: HITLER WAS A MISUNDERSTOOD GENIUS AND ILL GIVE YOUR WHOLE FAMILY AIDS IN HELL YOU PIECE OF SHIT
Lady*Unicorns*76 posted: “lol” (Laughing Out Loud!) don’t worry about greg sweetie! He’s just our little pet troll and you get used to him!! 😉 <3<3<3
jesus fucking christ I’m old…


