Tag: but Also

Soooo. there’s a lot of issues with this roof. Number one being that the roof above the lower balcony doesn’t actually extend over the railing meaning that when it rains you are gonna have drainage issues. Also also, there the top gable connects to the left gable and the conical tower you’re gonna have water collection because it isn’t angled correctly for drainage. 

ALSO also, this is a collection of at least three styles. So yes it’s PRETTY, and I really am a sucker for towers and pillars and wrap-around porches on New England style homes… but can we make them with an eye to practicality and NOT having the replace the roof every 3-5 years? Yeah?

chittychittycoco:

blondetrash:

bohoindie:

date the person who says, “have fun, be safe, and call if you need anything” not the person who gets mad at you for going out w/o them

partnership not ownership

Reblog until I die

and even on the off chance that you are INTO the “consensual ownership” thing…. still only be with someone who doesn’t isolate you from the world because no single person should be your one and only support. Let your partner[s] have friends they can see without you, assholes.

jumpingjacktrash:

it weirds me out how extremely offended and paranoid allistics get about being emotionally manipulated by politicians and corporations, when like… y’all exist in a constant state of emotionally manipulating each other, yourselves, and your environments, and tend to subconsciously consider autistics some kind of alien monster threat cryptid for not participating. it’s like being offended that politicians use their feet to walk or their hands to pick up objects.

There’s a difference between giving a partner or family member knowing consent to manipulate your emotions; don’t tell me Unsettling/Upsetting thing when I’m already in a bad mood, please wait until I’m stable For Instance; and people trying to be subtle about it to engineer outrage.

And it’s only unsettling and paranoia-inducing when people assume we’re not actually giving consent for it and instead just… letting ourselves be played by buying into a cultural paradigm that rides on that manipulation. (overly emotional moms begging you to be home by a certain hour? social shame? stigma re: orientation or kink or whatever?) It’s not the “lack of participation” that’s unsettling. It’s the judgmental nature of assuming we don’t know what’s going on and treating us like you’re on the outside looking in.