Hey newbs! Welcome to whatever fucking cluster fuck the fuck this is…..
I don’t know, the last 100+ followers don’t know, and my fandoms are weird and varied. Basic run down:
I’m the Greywalker; a Dreamworker and Pagan; personal pantheon + The Morrigan. Specifically Morrigan, Badb, and potentially another. Also maybe Cailleach.
Polyamorous; my Sir is @almightyalmighty, my boyfriend is @gladiatoroftheorists; both are incredible for different reasons. I submit to my Sir, and I play Butch to Ry, when we’re not engaged in weird switch-y non-D/s shenanigans.
I’m a gender-weird Trans Male; transmasculine drag queen. deal with it. die mad about it. No, that doesn’t make me a bioqueen, yes, I’ve got some issues w/ bio queens. {Go ahead and ask if you want a rant, but keep in mind my personal opinions have no bearing on the actions of others. do you, have fun. over there.}
I’m In Transition, no longer Pre-Everything. I’m in recovery for a hysterectomy after a really terrifying cancer scare. Thankfully, it was all high-level pre-cancerous cells, which means post-hysto, my spread risk is basically zero unless I contract HPV. Pap smears for life, basically, barring a few circumstances.
I’m a non-vegan; iron processing doesn’t work the same, eggs make me nauseous, lactose intolerant, B12 supplements make me sick. Deal.
I’m a Pseudo-Leatherboy. Boot black, leather worker, boot licker. Earned my harness just before Pride last summer; 2017. Leather History Is Gay History. Gay History Is Leather History. If you can’t acknowledge where roots are tangled, you probably shouldn’t be here.
I’m kinky af. I don’t post porn here generally speaking, but I DO write about scenes. I’m NOT and NEVER WILL BE SSC. Risk Aware Consensual Kink, or Personally Responsible Informed Consensual Kink ONLY. That means what I do isn’t particularly safe, it’s not particularly sane, but I and my Partner[s] have done independent research and come to our own conclusions about our acceptable circle of risk. I play with my PTSD, I engage with my demons, and I’m not ashamed to admit it. It’s not for everyone, and def not for people who’ve only read a few online journals. Do your research, BE INFORMED, or get out of the pool. This is risky shit. Retraumatization is A Thing, and so is requiring therapy for life if something gets fucked up. I’m personally ok with that, most people aren’t. That’s where PRICK meets BORK: Balls Out Risky Kink. I get off on that, but I’m also probably not particularly sane when it comes to the dungeon. Deal.
I’ve got a lot of religious, relationship, and and interpersonal baggage. I do my best not to use that as an excuse; and to keep my explanations of behavior just that. Sometimes that doesn’t work. Sometimes shit gets messy, and emotions aren’t fucking logical. I own my shit as my own shit, and I suggest you do the same if we’re gonna share a playground.
Common Tags Include: Greywalker, Dreaming, Adult Relationships Are For Adults, Use Your Words, Gay History Is Leather History, Leather History Is Gay History, Haven Being Haven, *LOUD MIDWESTERN LAUGHTER* and various and sundry others I can’t be arsed to write out. You’ll figure it out eventually.
The ask box is open, so is messenger. Please be a decent human being and don’t ping me after 12a Central… don’t need my phone going off while I’m trying to sleep and recover from missing organs somewhere in my abdomen, friends. Thanks.
I post in #post op adventures, and I’m back in the gym working on my post-op weight. I’m also really really against ED blogs interacting with me, because I’ve Been There Done That and avoiding relapse is hard af when you’re actively trying to lose weight~ Disordered thinking is a bitch and a half, but I’m working on changing my general attitude from bitterness and rage to celebrating all the ways my life is EPIC~
Why concentrate on how my life prior to 2015/2016 was shit, when everything SINCE THEN has been fucking incredible?? I’ve got real friends who support me, two partners who adore me, and a super comfy lifestyle that, while in no way perfect, is MILES from where I started out in 2010/2011.
House Of Crows 