…dare I say veterans being the public image of PTSD in america is deliberate propaganda to make us sympathize with soldiers who kill people overseas ? way more women have PTSD than men, and a lot have it from sexual and domestic violence, not combat.
So here’s the thing. The reason the ‘public image of PTSD in america’ is veterans has a lot more to do with history (both past and current) than anything else.
Humans are not very good at sussing out cause from effect. It’s not immediately obvious that the constellation of symptoms we call PTSD is a constellation. Sure, some of it is immediately obvious- of course if you got in a car accident you’d be scared of shoddy driving afterwards- but some of it (aggression, memory issues, fatigue) doesn’t have anything obvious to do with I Had A Traumatic Thing Happen And Things Are Bad Now.
If you don’t know that trauma can cause damage to your brain on a small-scale level, it’s easy to blame the symptoms of PTSD on the thing that is causing the PTSD. “Alice has been so moody since she broke up with her [creepy, rapey] boyfriend.” “Ozma hasn’t ever been the same since her husband died. It’s sad when someone’s widowed so young.”
“Poor Jenny married that terrible man, it’s so sad how much he’s ground her down.” And if you’re living in a time and place where most people are suffering many small traumas – say, most of human history- it’s easy to write the symptoms of PTSD off as just Part Of Growing Up.
…Now here’s the rub. If you send a perfectly healthy, happy 20-something-year-old off to war, and they Come Back Different, it’s a lot easier to notice. You’re not seeing the things that caused their PTSD on a day to day basis; you’re seeing the Before and After, like shitty gym photographs. And if you send an entire town’s worth of healthy, happy 20-somethings off to war, and most of them don’t come back at all and the ones who come back Come Back Different… even the most vehemently pro-abuse assholes in this world will notice that something is deeply, deeply wrong.
We discovered that PTSD exists because of the World Wars – particularly World War One. We discovered that there is a chronic condition that is the result of seeing too many atrocities because basically an entire generation of young (European) men died and even the most asshole-y of assholes couldn’t explain it away. These were Good Brave Young Men going off to Serve Their Country ™, they hadn’t been weak or foolish or ‘done’ anything to bring shell shock down on themselves, and the difference between them before and after shell shock set in was like night and day. It was pretty much the frictionless-cows-in-a-vaccuum situation for ‘proving’ that PTSD exists.
Time went on, scientists properly started studying this stuff, and they figured out that PTSD was the same phenomenon regardless of whether it was caused by a year on the front lines or fifteen years of marital rape. Because- let me reiterate- it’s not immediately obvious that it’s the same thing. Once they figured it out, yeah, in hindsight it’s bloody obvious that more women have PTSD than men and that rape/abuse/miscarriage/etc. have a lot to do with that.
But because of the early years when PTSD was equated to shell shock, most people still associate the two. And most older people in America will particularly equate the two because Vietnam. Yeah, some of the ‘Vietnam Vets With PTSD’ thing was probably overblown in the interest of sensationalism (whether to sentimentalize Those Poor Veterans or to fearmonger against Those Scary Violent Poor People).
But the thing is… Vietnam was the first time since WWI that we’d had that Spherical Cows In A Vacuum situation, at least in the USA. It was the first time we’d had a war that was big enough to suck in an entire generation, that was ugly enough to fuck up an entire generation- that was also unpopular enough that people felt safe saying that they’d gotten fucked up from it.
If you were a WWII veteran, you couldn’t really say ‘the war was a stupid pointless hell and I wish we’d never fought it’ Because Nazis. Hell, even if you’d fought in the Korean War, you couldn’t really say “the war was a stupid pointless hell and I wish we’d never fought it’ Because Commies. You were doing the right thing. You were Making The World Safe For Democracy. Saying anything else was wrong. But Vietnam was unpopular enough that there were plenty of places where you could say “hey, the war sucked, it fucked me up, I wish I’d never gone” and people would agree with you.
So for a lot of Baby Boomers and older Gen Xers, their first experience with PTSD was their dads or uncles or brothers, or their friends’ dads or uncles or brothers, coming back from Vietnam and coming back all fucked up. And then the TV talking about veterans with PTSD. And then learning about it at school. And so on, and so forth.
The youngest Gen Xers are only in their 30s. The people who have been in their careers long enough to shape the ‘public image’ of things in any way are, by and large, people who grew up during Vietnam and its immediate aftermath. In the same way that, if you grew up around 2001 in America, your immediate mental association with the word “terrorist” is most likely Osama Bin Ladin (and not, say, a cult letting off sarin gas in the subways or angry white school shooters), people who grew up around Vietnam will immediately associate ‘PTSD’ with ‘veteran’. And they have reasons for doing so- reasons that mean they will do so without any propagandistic intent on their part.
Considering that the USA puts out plenty of legitimate, obvious, banally terrifying pro-military propaganda- can you think twice before you cheapen that word, please? It’s a lot harder to convince people that, no, really, it’s not normal to have the military advertise on public transit if leftists run around calling any kind of pro-military or pro-veteran sentiment propaganda.
honestly if a vampire ever “sparkled” in public no ones going to think they’re not human. they’re just gonna be like “damn that’s a lot of body glitter. man look at you being you, right on. you do you boo, freedom of expression.”
Vampires can go out in the sun now thanks to fenty body lava
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it would be best if constituents from these districts called! ask some questions and let them know we are not ok with this!
Please please please call these reps and the reps in your own state. We NEED to maintain protection for these species, as it is the only way to preserve the ecosystems that we DIRECTLY DEPEND ON for carbon sequestering, clean water, and clean air!!
FUCK THIS. FUCK TRUMP, THIS CAN’T HAPPEN.
RESIST FIGHT BACK.
Save the EPA. Call your representatives.
I’m about as Anti-anti as they come… but even I know that some things shouldn’t be offered to young teens disguised as Unrestrained Passion and Love.
My own past history should be proof enough of the damage it can cause.
not reblogging because whew lad not touching that, but – “this book promotes creepy ideas” and “things young women like are often reflexively dismissed for misogynistic reasons” can both be true! they are not mutually exclusive!
let girls have strange, problematic, operatic fantasies 2k19. since when does “romantic”, in a literary context, have to imply “healthy” or even “realistic”?
It’s a lot to do with people assuming that Romantic=bad and creepy, a la Phantom of the Opera and Co (which is also a horror-bad creepy stalking murderer Romance in which the villain is kinda woobiefied). It’s also a lot to do with “we retroactively ADORE Twilight and its franchises because Girls Rule and What We Like is Not Terrible. Because Girls.” (the Duh and GFY Evil Manperson is heavily implied)
It’s less about its inherent “Problematicness” and much more the “we’re going to ignore all the creepy gross stuff in this book in favor of not policing what girls like. You know… like those evil men people do.” It’s completely fine to call out problematic bullshit in popular media. Even more ok than hounding people about their “problematic behavior” (Since we’re all only human and we fuck up sometimes. Shit happens.) Definitely preferable to hounding people about shit that happened more than a decade before that they’ve apologized for, explained, and done their best not to do again. *cough cough*
The problem isn’t the operatic, over the top, melodrama of it all. The problem is the overly idealized gross lead and the romanticization of a really… awful relationship plot. Christine at least ends up with Raoul, a much more human and compassionate character; if sort of wet-paper-bag in the personality department where Webber is concerned. Is it any wonder it birthed 50 Shades?
Also those sorts of storylines are intended for adults with discernment. Not 14 year olds without good sense. I’m in no way trying to be ageist here, but there IS a point at which the adults in your life definitely possess more emotional maturity and perception about what constitutes an abusive romantic entanglement disguised as the height of Romance and Passion.
Twilight isn’t just every bad romance novel trope come to life and plastered over the big screen for the 16 and under and 35 and over crowd. It’s specifically targeted at the under 16 demographic. It’s not just that it’s poorly written or that the prose leaves a lot to be desired, it’s the content.
Yes, girls can like whatever they wish. They shouldn’t; necessarily; be judged for it. But someone who stalks you and watches you in your sleep isn’t “romantic.” It’s not even Romantic in the gothic horror sense. It’s just creepy, and gross.
Villains in Addams Family movies go to really unnecessary lengths to defraud them of the family fortune. These people just give it away on whims all the time. If I just walked into the house and started wearing their clothes and spending their money, they wold start introducing me as Cousin Intruder and forget there was ever a time I didn’t live with them.
Gomez in particular would enjoy your boldness, Cousin Intruder.
Oh shit.
The Addams family loves and greets every person entering one of their homes.
The Addams family adopted or married every person wishing to stay.
This is why the Addams family is full of freaks.
Of course.
So what we’re saying is, tracing the Addams’ geneology is damn near impossible and it’s just as likely that no living member of the family is actually a blood relative of the people who originally held the family name?
What I’m hearing is that Batman is actually an Addams.
He most certainly is
I mean, considering if you look at it in the light of a different story, the near (actual, factual) homicidal level of bond and love the Addams have for each other, the idea that they’re all adopted, the way that Bruce is often portrayed as a bit of an aloof, smarmy smarm in private, the possibility that young Bruce might not be wholly appreciative of his extended family’s eccentricities, of which his parents are the mildest of the bunch, the idea that those two parents are (distantly) Addams’ and get gunned down, well.
[Gomez]: I came, I came as soon as I heard
[Bruce]: I…I told you never to come back, I said, I said you were weird
[Gomez]: Please, my boy, to compliment me when you are so wracked with grief. *clutching hug* Dear Thomas, dear Martha, so full of life…
[Bruce]: *extricating* They….they fell in front of me…while he laughed…with mother’s pearls…
[Gomez]: The fiend! This dishonor cannot stand!
[Bruce]: And I felt….I felt it well up inside me, a black blood welling up…
[Gomez]: Yes, dear boy…
[Bruce]: I….will be vengeance….
[Gomez]: Yes….
[Bruce]: I…I will be the night!
[Gomez]: Yes!
[Bruce]: I….I am an Addams!
[Gomez]: YES!
[Bruce]: I. AM. BATMAN. *lightning, thunder*
[Gomez]: YES, YES!!! My boy, the rivers will run red with wonderful blood!
[Alfred]: *sigh* I’ll put the tea on and grab the foils then, shall I, sirs?
Santa is on strike due to global warming. All presents this year will be delivered by Sasha the Christmas Tiger. Milk and cookies may not be sufficient.
Okay fine this is the ONE Christmas thing I will reblog before Thanksgiving BUT THAT’S IT
SASHA’S BACK ON MY DASH!
Y’all better behave, you have two months
You better watch out
You better watch out
You better watch out
You better watch out
You better watch out
I managed one more dawn on the ridge.
Watched the vultures and the hawks circling in the clouds. Saw more deer than I’ve ever seen out before, even a ten-point buck that I swear stared right through my soul… and four different female cardinals.